{"id":46,"date":"2007-12-08T22:00:20","date_gmt":"2007-12-09T03:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jayceland.com\/blog\/archive\/2007\/12\/08\/bands-at-the-bug-jar\/"},"modified":"2007-12-12T10:24:40","modified_gmt":"2007-12-12T15:24:40","slug":"bands-at-the-bug-jar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/jayceland.com\/blog\/archive\/2007\/12\/08\/bands-at-the-bug-jar\/","title":{"rendered":"Bands at the Bug Jar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After the movie, Ali and I went to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bugjar.com\">The Bug Jar<\/a><\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?q=219+Monroe+Ave,+Rochester,+NY&amp;ll=43.15013,-77.60017&amp;spn=.007,.014&amp;hl=en\">219 Monroe Ave.<\/a>) and met up with our friend Stacie to see the bands playing that night.<\/p>\n<p>I got in to see a few songs from <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tigercriedbeef.com\/\">Tiger Cried Beef<\/a><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.myspace.com\/tigercriedbeef\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jayceland.com\/images\/MySpace_13x13overFFFFFF.gif\" alt=\"MySpace link\" border=\"0\" height=\"13\" width=\"13\" \/><\/a> and they always impress me.  They're like gourmet vanilla: at first, you're like, \"oh, I've seen this before,\" but then you get into the subtleties and think, \"oh, yeah, but this can be really good.\"  I also noticed that good ideas sprout from my spot leaning against the right-side speaker <em>[with earplugs, by the way, which happen to serve two purposes: not blowing out my eardrums, and drowning out the distracting chatter.]<\/em>  It's not with every band or every time, but I find that poetry makes me think of stuff &mdash; you know, new things to do or work on.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, next up was <strong>The White Devils<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.myspace.com\/TheWhiteDevils\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/jayceland.com\/images\/MySpace_13x13overFFFFFF.gif\" alt=\"MySpace link\" border=\"0\" height=\"13\" width=\"13\" \/><\/a>.  This is <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.frankdeblase.com\">Frank De Blase<\/a><\/strong>'s band and for anybody who knows me, I have a mix of feelings about the guy.  It usually comes out looking like disdain, but it's really more complicated than that.<\/p>\n<p>See he's one of the main music writers for <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rochester-citynews.com\">The City Newspaper<\/a><\/strong> so there's a certain amount of empathetic envy (or envious empathy) since I kind of do the same thing sometimes &mdash; the dichotomy comes from the fact that he gets paid for it, but I can see myself getting annoyed that it's often a shit job.  I mean, sure you get paid to write about bands, but you also have to write fluffy pieces about bands you don't really care about, and you get slammed for being a critic by &mdash; in his case &mdash; your fellow musicians.<\/p>\n<p>Now I've also met him a few times.  A couple years ago, I remember having a nice chat about writing about music at <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.californiarollin.com\">California Rollin'<\/a> at Village Gate Square<\/strong> (<a href=\"https:\/\/maps.google.com\/maps?q=274+N+Goodman+St,+Rochester,+NY&amp;ll=43.15848,-77.58582&amp;spn=.007,.014&amp;hl=en\">274 N. Goodman St.<\/a>).  He seemed like a nice guy, but either forgot who I was or didn't want to talk to me the next time I saw him.  And again, I'm mixed on his response.  On the one hand you can't be friends with everyone you meet, and not everybody can do that \"such a nice guy front\" (and I know I can't do it consistently).  On the other, I think if you have a pleasant conversation with someone and you see them again, I kind of expect that there would be an inkling of recognition.  But then I also know that it's hard to remember everyone.  And then I hear from his friends that he's really a nice guy.  And then I hear from his detractors that he's not a nice guy.<\/p>\n<p>Worst of all is that I bother expending all this effort trying to accurately express how I feel about him when I don't really want to be friends with him <em>[no offense, Frank, if you're reading this]<\/em>.  His band does a bluesy rock that I'm not a fan of.  If I read him right, he's into pin-up culture and busty women; biker bars and greaser-chic.  I'm just not into that stuff &mdash; none of it.  It's just that we both happen to write about what's going on in town.<\/p>\n<p>I guess the thing is that he's writing for City.  And I assume there are lots of readers and most of them agree with Frank's assessment and preferences <em>[logically I know this is a flawed assumption but I can't seem to convince my heart]<\/em>.  But I wish that this quantity of N readers (where N is really fucking large) would actually like the kind of stuff that <em>I<\/em> connect with.  But then I think, \"why?  who cares?\"  I get unlimited latitude in what I feel like writing about and what I feel like putting on the events list.  I'm not out to win any popularity contest because I'm unwilling to make that devil's deal trading \"self\" for \"popular\".  I just figure there's got to be a way &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>But anyway, his band is good, even if it's not the kind of music I'm into.<\/p>\n<p>Closing things out that night was <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesadies.net\/\">The Sadies<\/a><\/strong> who always put on a great show.  It's all about the music although they look good doing it. And I really like them even though they play the country-cousin of bluesy-rock: rockabilly.  Well, rockabilly with generous helpings of surf-rock thrown in.  I feel bad because I don't have a lot of things to say about bands I like &mdash; I guess I figure it doesn't do much to try and explain in words what you hear-that-becomes-feel.  Just sound and motion and an emotional connection, I guess. Oh, and fun. Lots of fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After the movie, Ali and I went to The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) and met up with our friend Stacie to see the bands playing that night. 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