Weekly Rochester Events #464 Starting Thursday, November 29, 2007

Thursday, November 22nd, 2007

Thanksgiving 2007
by Jason Olshefsky at 7:00 am (add a comment)

I got up at 7 a.m. and put the turkey in the oven (after having prepared it all last night) and I got the rolls thawing. I got the kitchen cleaned up and then finished up cleaning up the house. I intended to go back to bed but it never actually happened. Ali came by around 10 and I got the coffee going. The flurry of activity around the house crescendoed around noon when I took the turkey out and Ali and I worked on potatoes, broccoli, gravy, cheese sauce, cooking the rolls, and getting the pies warmed up.

My parents arrived around 1 and Ali's parents and kid sister arrived shortly after. Ali had brought her artichoke casserole, my parents brought stuffing and another pie, and Ali's family brought pumpkin bread, wine, and squash. While moms and dads spent some time getting to know one another, Ali and I buzzed around, getting an excellent meal set up that basically went off without a hitch. I thought it wasn't as organized as last year, but then I had no standard upon which to base things and everything I tried was pretty much for the first time. Our guests disagreed and felt it was even better (well it was just my parents and Ali last year so her family was without a point of comparison.)

It all went well and even the pies were well received (I had made pumpkin and apple — apple for the first time). Afterward it was off to Ali's new house so my parents could see it and then everyone went home. All that work for a really great 4-hour period. It's disproportionately skewed toward planning, but that's the name of the game.

So Ali and I got things cleaned up a bit then took a nap. Thank goodness. We slept for 2 hours or so then got up and headed to my friend Rebecca's party. It was once an annual thing, but last year she apparently broke her foot, bought a house, and disappeared. Well the hugely amazing party was back this year — with dozens of desserts that followed an astounding buffet that Ali and I had skipped for our own.

The friends and family there were all very good people. Ali had a great time and was glad she didn't skip it — after all, she planned to get up early to do some seasonal work for our friends business at 5 a.m. the next day. She didn't even leave until 11 or so — although both of us thankfully live just around the corner. I ended up consuming a steady stream of alcohol until quite late — I got home around 4:30 a.m. and considered calling Ali to see if she was up. [In fact she was.]

So it was an excellent holiday overall.

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Saturday, November 24th, 2007

Great sandwiches at Boulder Coffee
by Jason Olshefsky at 12:00 pm (add a comment)

I headed to O'Bagelo's (165 State St.) around noon even though I didn't really have many plans for the rest of the day. Unfortunately, I determined they had closed for the holiday. I meandered back and went to Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) instead. I got a coffee, a stew (I think they said it was called "Montana Stew") and a grilled cheese with tomato and pesto [unfortunately the website doesn't have an up-to-date menu that I could readily reference … hint, hint Boulder]. The stew was great: a beef-based stew with nutmeg and cinnamon spices. The sandwich was good, but the whole wheat bread detracted from the chewy, gooey cheesiness.

I decided that I'd surprise Ali — after all, she was working her regular job then going to our friends' business for the rest of the afternoon immediately afterward, and I didn't think she'd get a chance to have lunch. I got her a grilled cheese on focaccia bread (my preference) with no tomato (her preference). I also got a cup of the cream of broccoli soup as I didn't think she'd like the spices in the stew. I also brought leftover pies for the owners and the rest of the crew.

Well she was suitably surprised and glad that I brought food. We spent her lunch break together.  The cream of broccoli was excellent although thinner than I prefer, it was at least packed with vegetables.  I liked the grilled cheese with focaccia better as well.

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Dr. Strangelove and Bridge on the River Kwai at the Dryden
by Jason Olshefsky at 8:00 pm (add a comment)

I rushed to get to the Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) to see Dr. Strangelove or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb. It turned out to be quite the popular movie and it wouldn't have mattered if I hurried or not for I just ended up at the end of a long line. I also ran into Rebecca and her boyfriend, so the three of us got together for the film.

I've long enjoyed it as the blackest of the black comedies — I mean, it really doesn't get funnier than "mutually assured destruction" [perhaps save for "mutually assured self-destruction"]. The very idea that one erroneous step in the arms race and kaboom: life would be far different now than it turned out to be.

Last Wednesday I headed there (the Dryden, not nuclear apocalypse) to see The Bridge on the River Kwai. I hadn't seen it before, but Stanley Kubrick blurs the line even further between black comedy, satire, and drama. I mean, can you really do a serious movie about war — or more particularly, the logic of war? It just doesn't make any sense outside its absurd context, as if the rules of life were completely dumped topsy-turvy.

But both films really dismantle the idea of the romantic view of war as some kind of beautiful peak experience. The reality is it's bat-shit fucking crazy. It really gives me, well, strange feelings toward our troops in Iraq.

On the one hand, I genuinely dish out gratitude for their actions. I get confused as to why, exactly. I mean, I'm not glad that they're killing people. And I don't believe that what we're doing is making anything better — short-term unquestionably worse, and long-term unlikely better — at least from my broad, detached, ill-informed [thanks media, government!] view. But then for what? Perhaps that they believe — they believe so much in America that they're willing to go to a far away place where people want to kill them and stand up and say "I'm an American" and shoot anyone who tries to shoot them.

I kind of envy that kind of thinking, for it's not so simple for me. I think the Constitution was a fantastic architecture for a government, and the Bill of Rights is a stupefyingly excellent invention. But the constant attempts to leverage power — oy!, enough already! Maybe it's inevitable human behavior to abuse power, but if so, then why permit authority in the first place?

So then the jingoist asks, "so are you for America or against it?" Let me answer this way: "I am all for my version of America." The one that puts the individual at the head of the pack — not the judge or the President, but the individual. I mean, imagine the difference it would make to hear, "I'm your representative: how can I help you?" rather than "I'm your leader: do what I tell you."

I'm kind of an idealist about the whole thing. I mean, I believe that, given freedom, that people will behave well toward one another. Unfortunately, I'm up against people who believe so strongly otherwise that they will demonstrate behavior counter to my ideal for the purpose of proving it false.

But hey, that's the nature of war.

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Wednesday, November 28th, 2007

Too cold to run barefoot this time
by Jason Olshefsky at 7:45 am (add a comment)

I went out for a run and it's about 23°F outside. I figured I'd see how far I could get since there's no snow and it's calm. I ended up going down the block and back — about 6 minutes. My feet got really cold and the bottoms were numbed enough that I decided to cut it short before I injured myself. I got back and the bottoms of my feet were around 55°F and my toes were 52°F — just a few degrees colder than I'd experienced before, but cold enough. At least for now.

I also spent some time on Gmaps Pedometer which lets you draw on a Google Map, point-to-point and accumulate the distance. I did some measuring and the course I thought was 2 miles was really more like 1.8, so I'm not running as fast as I thought I was. Oh well.

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JayceLand Pick This morning at 10 a.m. at Annexia (439 Central Ave.) is a Business Liquidation Auction by The Reynolds Auction Company. [source: Reynold's Auction website]

This evening from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. is the Park Avenue Holiday Open House along Park Ave. (map). Events include an art opening at The Oxford Gallery (267 Oxford St.), and ice scuplting at Gallery R (775 Park Ave.). [source: Park Avenue events calendar] [all ages]

Tonight at 7 p.m. at The Baobab Cultural Center (728 University Ave., formerly on Gregory St.) is a screening of Roots Daughters: Women of the Rastafari. [source: Baobab website]

Over at Starry Nites Café (696 University Ave., formerly Moonbeans) starting around 8 p.m. is harmonious duo Red Branch. [source: Starry Nites calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) will be hosting good punk-rock/bar-rock from The SpacesMySpace link starting around 8 p.m. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Hearts and Minds starting at 8 p.m. It's a documentary that looks at the "consequences of the Vietnam War for both Americans and Vietnamese assembles footage from the battlefields, civilian life, interviews, and even Hollywood films," as the Eastman House calendar puts it. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Over at Dinosaur Bar-B-Que (99 Court St.) starting around 10 p.m. is rocking rockabilly band Krypton 88MySpace link. [source: Dinosaur Bar-B-Que calendar]

Tonight and every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. in the Learning Center at Brighton Memorial Library (2300 Elmwood Ave.) is a meeting of The Rochester Movie Makers Club [source: AIVF Salon Rochester Yahoo! Group]

Drinking Liberally meets at 8 p.m. tonight at Monty's Korner (355 East Ave.) [source: RocWiki calendar]

Apparently The Critical Mass Bike Ride is tonight starting at 5:30 p.m. at the clock tower near The Wilson Commons at The University of Rochester (Library Road, #39 on River Campus Map.) to The Liberty Pole (1 Liberty Pole Way) at 6 p.m. and heading through the city from there. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

The Noise, On VinylMySpace link, HorsefaceMySpace link, City Lights, and Drugstore Cowboy will be at All Things Art (65 S. Main St., Canandaigua) starting around 6:30 p.m. [source: WBER calendar] [all ages]

Over at The Club at Water Street (204 N. Water St.) starting around 7 p.m. is The CasualtiesMySpace link, good, gimmicky heavy metal from BlüdwülfMySpace link, and Preemptive StrikeMySpace link. [source: Water Street calendar] [16+]

This evening from 7 p.m. to 10 p.m. at The Rochester Visual Studies Workshop (31 Prince St.) is the opening reception for Iroquoia, an MFA Thesis exhibition and book release by Matt Walker. The exhibition will be on display through December 15. [source: Visual Studies Workshop calendar] [all ages]

Tonight at The House of Hamez (389 Gregory St., formerly Daily Perks) is The Varnish CooksMySpace link, and The Powder KegsMySpace link starting around 8 p.m. [source: House of Hamez website] [all ages]

Nate & KateMySpace link will be at Starry Nites Café (696 University Ave., formerly Moonbeans) starting around 8 p.m. [source: Starry Nites calendar] [all ages]

Top Pick Over at Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) starting around 8 p.m. is comedy with funny musical comic Joshua GrosventMySpace link, Kate AndersonMySpace link, Shawn Murphy, and Matt RohrMySpace link. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

Tonight at Kilbourn Hall at Eastman Theatre (60 Gibbs St.) is The Eastman Musica Nova Ensemble starting around 8 p.m. [source: Eastman School of Music calendar] [all ages]

Opening tonight at Shipping Dock Theatre (31 Prince St., new location at Visual Studies Workshop) at 8 p.m. is the new play The Magic Fire. It runs through December 23. Note that Sunday at 2 p.m. is the "Pay What You Can" performance. [source: Shipping Dock Theatre mailing]

The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Labyrinth starting at 8 p.m. and again on Sunday afternoon at 2 p.m. It's a fantastical film about a girl who needs to rescue her baby brother from a strange world. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Top Pick Over at The California Brew Haus (402 West Ridge Rd.) starting around 9:30 p.m. is Nipplepalooza III featuring funny, nerdy, good rock from Ookla The MokMySpace link, superfast synth-pop novelty songs from Worm QuartetMySpace link, Carla UlbrichMySpace link, Sudden DeathMySpace link, and Rob Balder. [source: RocWiki calendar]

Tonight probably starting around 7 p.m. at The Storefront Anti-War Crisis Center (658 Monroe Ave.) is the Subversive Komedy Fest. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

Today from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. at Shipping Dock Theatre (31 Prince St., new location at Visual Studies Workshop) is an Improv Workshop with Brad FortierMySpace link. [source: Shipping Dock Theatre website]

Tonight at The LandfillMySpace link (625 Weiland Rd.) is Tumul, The Go, and White YorkMySpace link starting around 7 p.m. [source: Carbon Records calendar]

JayceLand Pick The House of Hamez (389 Gregory St., formerly Daily Perks) will be hosting the great motley folk of Baby Shivers BoutiqueMySpace link, The Meddlesome Meddlesome Meddlesome Bells, Roger KuhnMySpace link, and The Auger starting around 8 p.m. [source: House of Hamez website] [all ages]

Cale ParksMySpace link, and Bear HandsMySpace link will be at Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) starting around 8 p.m. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Antonio Gaudí starting at 8 p.m. and again on Sunday at 7 p.m. It's a documentary on the buildings of the titular architect. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Gore Gore GirlsMySpace link, The Whiskey DaredevilsMySpace link, and The Lucky CatsMySpace link will be at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [21+]

Monty's KrownMySpace link (875 Monroe Ave.) will be hosting Stone Spoon BaboonMySpace link starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Monty's Krown MySpace page] [21+]

Betty's Sing-a-Long is regularly scheduled at Betty Meyer's Bullwinkle Café (622 Lake Ave., a.k.a. "Bullwinkle's") starting around 10 but since September, 2007 people have reported they were closed.

Today from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. is another Holidays at the Market at The Rochester Public Market (280 Union St. N.) of course. [source: City Hall press release]

Today at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) is Community Day from 1 p.m. to 5 p.m. and will include a Holiday Musicale from 3 p.m. to 4 p.m. featuring The Silver Tones Flute Choir. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Today from 2 p.m. to 2:30 p.m. at The Memorial Art Gallery (500 University Ave., near Goodman St.) is a What's Up Lecture with Rachael Baldanza discussing Thinking on Paper. [source: Memorial Art Gallery calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick This evening at 7 p.m. at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) is the opening of artworks titled Recent Weirdness by William B. Hand. Later, starting around 9:30 p.m. is good high-energy punk-rock band The GrievantsMySpace link, The Night Time Dealers, and PegacideMySpace link. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [18+]

JayceLand Pick Today at 7 p.m. at Shipping Dock Theatre (31 Prince St., new location at Visual Studies Workshop) is Shipping Dock UnleashedMySpace link. [source: Shipping Dock Theatre website]

Bored? Why not check out 1980's DJ night at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) starting around 11 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar]

This morning at 7:30 a.m. in the cafeteria overlooking the arboretum in Bausch and Lomb (140 Stone St.) is the Artists Breakfast Group meeting ... anyone interested in art or creativity is invited.

JayceLand Pick This evening at 7:30 p.m. in the East River Road Auditorium at The University of Rochester's Advancement and Alumni Center (300 East River Rd.) is Entrepreneurship, Hip-hop and Def: An Evening with Mos Def. Bakari Kitwana will moderate a discussion with Mos DefMySpace link and Sheron Umi Smith. [source: University of Rochester website]

Tonight at Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) is Azure SkyMySpace link starting around 8 p.m. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Spite Marriage starting at 8 p.m. Pianist Philip C. Carli accompanies this silent film about a clothing cleaner who borrows a tuxedo from the rack which convinces an actress that he's wealthy and marriage-material. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Tonight at 7 p.m. at Verb Café at Writers and Books (740 University Ave.) is a screening of The Coldest Winter by David Halberstan followed by a panel discussion. [source: Writers and Books calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Bop Shop (274 N. Goodman St., in Village Gate Square) will be hosting The Engines starting around 8 p.m. [source: Bop Shop calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Amarcord starting at 8 p.m. The Eastman House calendar quotes Jack Garner, "Fellini uses rich humor, heartfelt sentiment, and artistic vision to recount his youth for us all." [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Poor People United meets tonight and every Wednesday at 7 at St. Joseph's House of Hospitality (402 South Ave.) [source: the proverbial grapevine]

Every Wednesday starting at Monty's KrownMySpace link (875 Monroe Ave.) at 7 p.m. is the Rochester Cruisers Ride for bicyclists. [source: RocBike website]

There's an Open Mic for Acoustic Music at Boulder Coffee Co. (100 Alexander St.) tonight around 8. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

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This page is Jason Olshefsky's list of things to do in Rochester, NY and the surrounding region (including nearby towns Irondequoit, Webster, Penfield, Pittsford, Victor, Henrietta, Gates, Chili, Greece, and Charlotte, and occasionally other places in Monroe County and the Western New York region.) It is updated every week with daily listings for entertainment, activities, performances, movies, music, bands, comedy, improv, poetry, storytelling, lectures, discussions, debates, theater, plays, and generally fun things to do. Music events are usually original bands with occasional cover bands and DJ's with musical styles including punk, emo, ska, swing, rock, rock-and-roll, alternative, metal, jazz, blues, noise band, experimental music, folk, acoustic, and "world-beat." Events listed take place during the day, in the evenings, or as part of the city's nightlife as listed. Although I'm reluctant to admit it, it is a Rochester blog and I'm essentially blogging about Rochester events. I also tend to express opinions, review past events, make reviews, speak of philosophy or of a philosophical nature, discuss humanity and creativity. Oh, and it's spelled JayceLand with no space and a capital L, not Jayce Land, Jaycee Land, Jace Land, Jase Land, Joyce Land, Jayce World, Jayceeland, Jaceland, Jaseland, Joyceland, Jayceworld, Jayceeworld, Jaceworld, Jaseworld, nor Joyceworld. (Now if you misspell it in some search engine, you at least get a shot at finding it.) It's also not to be confused with Jake's World or JakesWorld which is a site of a Rochester animator. While I'm on the topic of keywords for search engines, this update includes information for Thursday, November 29, 2007 (Thu, Nov 29, 2007, 11/29/2007, or 11/29/07) Friday, November 30, 2007 (Fri, Nov 30, 2007, 11/30/2007, or 11/30/07) Saturday, December 1, 2007 (Sat, Dec 1, 2007, 12/1/2007, or 12/1/07) Sunday, December 2, 2007 (Sun, Dec 2, 2007, 12/2/2007, or 12/2/07) Monday, December 3, 2007 (Mon, Dec 3, 2007, 12/3/2007, or 12/3/07) Tuesday, December 4, 2007 (Tue, Dec 4, 2007, 12/4/2007, or 12/4/07) and Wednesday, December 5, 2007 (Wed, Dec 5, 2007, 12/5/2007, or 12/5/07).

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