Weekly Rochester Events #428: Golden Gate Strait

Thursday, March 22, 2007

Getting things started last week, I went to the Dryden Theatre at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) to listen to David Friend lecture on the topic of his new book, Watching the World Change: The Stories Behind the Images of 9/11. He spent some time introducing the topic — refraining from showing the images from the book which would (and did) steal his thunder. He spoke about how the attacks of September 11, 2001 would be different if they happened today. One of the insightful comments he made was how technology had changed: in 2001, camera phones were rare in the United States, but imagine how different it would be if everyone in the towers were broadcasting live images of what was happening inside? Oddly, when I imagine that it makes me really recall how it felt to experience that day.

He showed a bunch of images, including the video from French videography-duo Jules Naudet and Gédéon Naudet who captured video of the first plane hitting the North tower. They were filming a documentary on a New York City fire station at the time and heard a noise overhead, pointed the camera approximately where it seemed to be heading, and caught the shocking video. David Friend continued with a sampling of images through the book — I found those that came closest to the beginning of the attacks to be the most visceral.

Afterward, only a couple people had questions. One guy asked why — as Friend is an editor at Vanity Fair — the American media decided to stop showing the people jumping from the buildings? In Canada and Europe that was the iconic imagery of the day. Friend had no real answer other than that it was too gut-wrenching. I tend to agree with the questioner: I found that I had trouble realizing there were hundreds of people on the planes and thousands inside the building — it shocks me today to see images of people jumping because it puts a human side to the story I had repressed. I mean, it really lets me put myself in their shoes and think what I would have done.

Since Ali was staying home, I had a chance to get some sushi (she doesn't like it, and yes she has tried all kinds of it and she still doesn't like it.) I had what was essentially a buy-one-get-one coupon from the Entertainment book for California Rollin' II in the Ferry Terminal (1000 N. River St.) So, I drove way up there (which was the first time I actually saw the terminal, believe it or not.) It was eerie to see evidence of a transportation service that was completely unused. Kind of like an abandoned amusement park. Anyway, the sushi up there is just as good as the Village Gate location: in my opinion, consistently good-but-not-great.

On Friday Ali and I met at India House Restaurant (7343 State Route 96, Victor) for some Indian buffet. Mmmm. Just as good as ever. That night we got together again and went to the Dryden for Jonestown: The Life and Death of People's Temple. I had also set up a MEETinROCHESTER event and Sonia showed up — I met her at the last event I attended with that group at Tapas One Seventy Seven (177 Saint Paul St.) Anyway, the movie was fascinating and terrifying. It basically outlines exactly how people get involved with a cult and how one can be formed. It's a remarkable film.

In the beginning, the multi-racial, charitable utopia it promised seemed to really be true. As the film goes on, it reveals darker elements of the whole thing. By the end, it draws from extensive newsreel footage of Senator Ryan's murder (when he went to Guyana) and audio recordings and first-person accounts of the mass suicide. One of the survivors declared that it was a mass murder — and with audio of children being pried from their mother's arms to be fed poison, I tend to believe him. It was horrific.

This got me to thinking about a couple things I've picked up over the years and have recently been trying to make into aphorisms. I mused at an early comment in the Jonestown film by one of the former members: they said that nobody sets out to join a cult ... well, practically everyone who goes jokes that Burning Man is a cult. At least from the outside it seems like one — yet it fails the aphoristic tests I'm about to lay out.

The first stems from Ayn Rand, I think even verbatim: "never let someone else think for you." This is the draw of someone like Jim Jones: somebody who professes such good things that you no longer have to assess their ideas, you can just trust everything they say to be true. Once you've done that, you've sold your soul — you're basically dead because you've shut off your ability to think and to be critical.

Next is less eloquent: "if I'm told, 'you shouldn't ask that question', I leave." Again with Jonestown, the followers noted that they were discouraged from asking questions of one another, only of Jones directly. One person said that during the relatively early lectures in churches, they questioned some of what Jones said but went along with it because it seemed like everyone else was. This applies especially to Scientology and things like "The Secret" — that new-age film and book going around. In the latter, you're discouraged from trying to figure out how the magic genie works, so don't ask, "what if I attract all the money in the world, then nobody else can have any, right?" As to the former, as far as I can tell, it's not so much about being discouraged from asking questions, it's about getting straight answers.

The final one doesn't really have any aphorism to it — at least not yet. The gist is there are things you can do in your life that are extremely beautiful (in a rational-spiritual-personal holistic kind of way) that, with a slight alteration in one seemingly tiny part, turn horrifically ugly. For instance, I think it's beautiful for someone to decide that they have no use for personal possessions so they get rid of what they own and learn to be free from them. If, say, Jim Jones, on the other hand, suggests that you give their group all your possessions, it suddenly turns into a disgusting mishmash of false-selflessness and greed. For example ... well ... see the movie.

On Saturday night, I went with Ali, Stacie, and Scott to The Füul Music HallMySpace link (37 Niagara St., Canandaigua) to check out the bands there. It's not far from where Ali lives so we threw caution to the wind and set ourselves up to walk home. Each of us drank a lot ... it's been a while since I was that drunk and I'll not likely do it again. Well, at least for a long time. Füul is a pretty good place for music and I'd recommend checking it out if there's something there you want to see.

It wasn't until Monday that I got out again. I went to Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) to check out the Geva Comedy ImprovMySpace link show there. It was comedic long-form — "The Nuclear Family" — in which several of the performers play members of a family who start out at breakfast and must be home for dinner by 6 p.m. The show really got rolling and got funny toward the middle of the first half — by then the players had a handle on the scenarios they were getting into. Hopefully they'll do this again once in a while.

Tuesday morning I was inexplicably awake early in the morning and decided to visit with The Artist Breakfast Group in the cafeteria at Bausch and Lomb (140 Stone St.) This day they had a speaker — Alan D. Singer — lead a discussion on business and art. He says he separates business and personal — some works are made for himself that he holds close whereas commercial art is commercial art. Basically, assume gallery owners behave like commodity traders.

To be honest, I'm not very concerned about that anymore.

As someone who has created things in the past, I was concerned that there was nobody there to buy my creations. Well, once again turning to Rand, I'm reminded that "need" is not automatically fulfilled. That is, if I "need" some ice cream, I can sit forever with an empty bowl and spoon and no ice cream will magically appear. The "trick", so-to-speak, is to, say, find people with too much ice cream to fill your bowl ... or maybe you could trade something — even if what you offer is only your potential, future satisfaction. For art, it's to make something people want to give you money for. Isn't that always the way to get money?: to do something that people will give you money for? [diagram that sentence, brainiac!]

Second, there is always the option of doing something I'm good at for money so I can do the things I really want to do. That way, if I make paintings, I can make ones whose colors don't match your sofa and I don't need to care.

  • 51 Birch Street (at The Little) - A documentary about a family — the filmmaker "had every reason to believe his parents' 54-year marriage was a good one. But when his mother dies unexpectedly and his father swiftly marries his former secretary, he discovers two parents who are far more complex and troubled than he ever imagined."
  • The Situation (at The Little) - A fictional film about the repercussions of the actions of American soldiers in Iraq.

AstreaMySpace link, and Nate In PublicGarageBand linkMySpace link will be at The Club at Water Street (204 N. Water St.) starting around 7 p.m. [source: Water Street calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick This evening at 7 p.m. at The Baobab Cultural Center (728 University Ave., formerly on Gregory St.) is a lecture titled African American Atheists — Humanism, Activism & Intellectualism by Norm R. Allen, Jr.. [source: Baobab website]

Over at The Little Theatre Café (240 East Ave.) starting around 7:30 p.m. is Bazaha-Lala. [source: Rochester Cajun Zydeco calendar]

Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) will be hosting Electric OrganicMySpace link starting around 8 p.m. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

The Eastman Jazz Lab Band will be at Kilbourn Hall at Eastman Theatre (60 Gibbs St.) starting around 8 p.m. [source: Eastman School of Music calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Cría Cuervos (Raise Ravens) starting at 8 p.m. From the Eastman House Calendar: "Ana is a nine-year-old girl who believes she has the power of life and death over those near to her." [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Over at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) starting around 9:30 p.m. is light vocals and percussion-heavy rock (depending on who plays this night) from A WonderfulMySpace link, dreary, low-key acoustic from CarbonicMySpace link, and Tiger SawMySpace link. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [18+]

Pure Kona Poetry Open Mic Night is at Daily Perks (389 Gregory St.) tonight starting at 7:30. [source: Daily Perks calendar]

Tonight at 8 p.m. at Bodhi's Cafe & Lounge (274 Goodman St. N., in Village Gate) is an Open Mic. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

Drinking Liberally meets at 8 p.m. tonight at Monty's Korner (355 East Ave.) [source: RocWiki calendar]

This evening at 6 p.m. at Writers and Books (740 University Ave.) is the Rochester Teen Poetry Slams At-Large Playoffs. [source: Writers and Books calendar] [all ages]

Over at A|V Art Sound Space (N. Union St. at Trinidad St., #8 in the Public Market, formerly the All-Purpose Room) starting around 7 p.m. is Hell or High WaterMySpace link, and The GoddamnMySpace link. [source: A|V Space website]

JayceLand Pick It's been a while since I noted this, but tonight's another Comedy Night at Daily Perks (389 Gregory St.) starting at 8 p.m. [source: Daily Perks calendar] [all ages]

Over at Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) starting around 8 p.m. is DubblestuffGarageBand linkMySpace link. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Man Push Cart starting at 8 p.m. and again on Sunday at 5 p.m. The gist is that there was this Pakistani rock-star named Ahmad who now pushes a rolling coffee-cart through Manhattan. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick This evening starting around 8 p.m. at The Club at Water Street (204 N. Water St.) is Doped The HorseMySpace link preceded by a screening of their "comedic short film", The Making Of The Day The Earth Should Still along with music by HungnessMySpace link (formerly Kill Myself on Monday), NatureWasteNothing, Eric the Taylor, Teressa WilcoxMySpace link, Sympathetic EchoMySpace link, and maybe even experimental acoustic soloist Gregory PaulGarageBand linkMySpace link. [source: band e-mail] [all ages]

Over at The Flat Iron Café (561 State St.) starting around 9 p.m. is Tommy HawkinsMySpace link and friends. [source: Flat Iron Cafe webstie]

The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) will be hosting LafcadioMySpace link, and The Stationary OdysseyMySpace link starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [18+]

The ClockersGarageBand linkMySpace link will be at Monty's KrownMySpace link (875 Monroe Ave.) starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Freetime] [21+]

JayceLand Pick After both afternoon screenings of 51 Birch Street (1:30 p.m. and 4:05 p.m.) at The Little (240 East Ave.) is a question-and-answer session with the eldest sibling Ellen Block.

This afternoon at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) is the early CD-release show for metal band BlüdwülfMySpace link, A FortioriMySpace link, RabidMySpace link, War VomitMySpace link, and Spoonful Of Vicodin starting around 4 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [all ages]

The CapitalsMySpace link will be at Boulder Coffee Co.MySpace link (100 Alexander St.) starting around 8 p.m. [source: Boulder Coffee MySpace site] [all ages]

Tonight at The Baobab Cultural Center (728 University Ave., formerly on Gregory St.) starting at 8 p.m. is a Rent Party (i.e. $25 donation) featuring drumming by Nii Armah Oblie. [source: Baobab website]

JayceLand Pick The CD-release show for BlüdwülfMySpace link is tonight along with great hard-rock band The UV RaysGarageBand linkMySpace link, and GhostharmMySpace link at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [18+]

Tonight at Monty's KrownMySpace link (875 Monroe Ave.) is Cavalcade, and The Polar RadioGarageBand link starting around 10:30 p.m. [source: Freetime] [21+]

Tonight's another Betty's Sing-a-Long at Betty Meyer's Bullwinkle Café (622 Lake Ave., a.k.a. "Bullwinkle's") starting around 10.

This afternoon at 2 p.m. at the Darfur/Darfur exhibit at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) is music by students of The Eastman School of Music. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Today from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. at Eastman Theatre (60 Gibbs St.) is A Taste of Song: Community Choral Prism featuring 5-minute songs from dozens of local groups. [source: Eastman School of Music calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick A|V Art Sound Space (N. Union St. at Trinidad St., #8 in the Public Market, formerly the All-Purpose Room) will be hosting 4-piece, chaotic, high-energy rock from The Chinese StarsMySpace link (which I described from a 2003 show as "kinda like a bunch of ambulances riding on a train"), and Tuurd starting around 9 p.m. [source: A|V Space website]

Tonight and every Sunday at Boulder Coffee Co. (100 Alexander St.) is a Comedy Open Mic with Matt RohrMySpace link at 7:30 p.m. [source: the proverbial grapevine] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick Today at 4:30 p.m. in the Hawkins Carlson Room of The Rush Rhees Library in The University of Rochester (Library Rd. at Intercampus Dr., details on River Campus Map) is a discussion led by Margaret Atwwod. She will later give a presentation/performance in Ingle Auditorium at RIT (One Lomb Memorial Dr., campus map) at 8 p.m. [source: University of Rochester Events Calendar]

Spoken-word/avant-garde ambient music duo Urknee and BjürtonMySpace link are rumored to make an appearance at this month's Wide Open Mic with Norm Davis tonight at 7:30 p.m. in Verb Café at Writers and Books (740 University Ave.) [source: Writers and Books calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick In theory, there is another Emerging Filmmakers Program tonight at The Little (240 East Ave.) at 9:15 p.m., but I haven't heard anything about it so your guess is as good as mine. As soon as I get the details I'll post the films.

Bored? Why not check out 1980's DJ night at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) starting around 11 p.m. [source: Bug Jar calendar]

This morning at 7:30 a.m. in the cafeteria overlooking the arboretum in Bausch and Lomb (140 Stone St.) is the Artists Breakfast Group meeting ... anyone interested in art or creativity is invited.

JayceLand Pick Today from 7:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at The State University of New York (SUNY) Brockport MetroCenter (55 St. Paul St., formerly the Rochester Chamber of Commerce) is a discussion by Don McPherson titled You Throw Like a Girl: Exploring the Myths of Masculinity. [source: Gay Alliance website]

The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Rashômon starting at 8 p.m. in which the tale of a murder is told through the fragmented views of four characters. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Tonight starting around 9 p.m. at The Bug Jar (219 Monroe Ave.) is a Singer/Songwriter Showcase with performers to-be-determined. [source: Bug Jar calendar] [18+]

Daily Perks (389 Gregory St.) is hosting an Acoustic Open Mic from 8 to 10. [source: Daily Perks calendar]

Tonight at Daily Perks (389 Gregory St.) is Nate Hanks starting around 6 p.m. [source: Daily Perks calendar] [all ages]

Tonight at 7 p.m. at The Rochester Visual Studies Workshop (31 Prince St.) is an event in the Artist in Residence Lecture Series featuring Irma Martinez Sizer. [source: Visual Studies Workshop calendar] [all ages]

JayceLand Pick Tonight at 7 p.m., The Baobab Cultural Center (728 University Ave., formerly on Gregory St.) will be screening No! The Rape Documentary. [source: Baobab website]

JayceLand Pick The Dryden Theater at George Eastman House (900 East Ave.) will be showing Artists and Models starting at 8 p.m. in which a man's nightmares and fantasies feed his comic-book artist roommate. Preceded by two animated shorts: A Tale of Two Mice and Puss n' Booty. [source: Eastman House calendar] [all ages]

Tonight at A|V Art Sound Space (N. Union St. at Trinidad St., #8 in the Public Market, formerly the All-Purpose Room) is PantherMySpace link, Stone BabyMySpace link, and Mike TamburoMySpace link starting around 9 p.m. [source: A|V Space website]

Poor People United meets tonight and every Wednesday at 7 at St. Joseph's House of Hospitality (402 South Ave.) [source: the proverbial grapevine]

There's an Open Mic for Acoustic Music at Boulder Coffee Co. (100 Alexander St.) tonight around 8. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

Tonight at Café Underground Railroad (480 W. Main St.) is a Spoken Word/Poetry night starting around 9 p.m. [source: the proverbial grapevine]

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